How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 00:31

How does one succeed in life?

Hangs out with loser friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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That's it for today.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What are the legal obligations of a new homeowner if the previous owner leaves furniture in the house after moving out?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

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Making more friends is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Procrastinates a lot.

Do you think there will ever be a movie that features a line such as “You graduated at the top of your class in liberal arts, we need your help”?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Does not procrastinate.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What I need from you?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.